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photo a day challenge – your shoes

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When I was in my twenties I couldn’t understand why old ladies wore such ugly shoes. I swore that I wouldn’t ever wear ugly shoes when I got old. I would wear elegant and fashionable shoes. Well, the years have passed and I’ve now learned why many old ladies wore ugly shoes – because they were COMFORTABLE.  I’ve been thinking about that a lot lately, so this challenge theme was very apt. Today’s purchase is these Bared shoes. They are SO comfortable, and I think that they’re also rather lovely*.

I love pointy toed shoes with elegant mid-height curved heels. They are so pretty! As are high heels and strappy sandals. But I simply cannot wear them anymore. Over the past year or two  I have been wearing my fashionable shoes to work only to find that they now pinch, hurt and rub my feet and I can’t wait to get them off. My shoe collection has been reducing at a rapid rate as I send pair after pair to the op shop. Life is too short to have sore feet. Gradually my shoe wardrobe has changed and I am now shod by the likes of Birkenstock, Hush Puppies, Naot and now Bared. Shoes with lots of cushioning, shaped footbeds, lower, broader heels or a gentle wedge, rounded toes, that don’t cause pain. My bunion and fallen arches are thanking me. My wallet is not.  But I have officially become an old lady wearing sensible shoes. Well, a middle-aged lady. However, I don’t think that these shoes are ugly – or maybe my perception has changed over the years!

Mind you, I remember that in my twenties I thought that all shoes should come in the colours of black, navy or brown.  That was it.  I thought that those colours went with everything and didn’t see why the shoe manufacturers would waste their time making shoes in other colours.  Now I do my utmost to find shoes that are green, red, orange, metallic……

* And isn’t that tin that the shoes come in gorgeous? Much prettier than a cardboard box.

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photo a day challenge – inside your closet

photo a day challenge - inside my closet

It’s all pretty crowded inside my closet. I’d really like some built-in cupboards in our bedroom. I like to be able to see what I have, hence draping the scarves over some rails on the inside of the door. Hats, clutch bags, gloves and stoles are on the shelf.  The opposite door has lots of hooks and nails to hang necklaces. I mostly keep my shoes in boxes, with photos or descriptions on the end so that I know what box holds what shoes. It could all be a little prettier and more elegant, but it works as it is.

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photo a day challenge – your handwriting/words

Before I show you my next challenge photo, I have to let you know that I am finding it difficult to find enough words to express how touched I am by the responses to yesterday’s post.  They have brought tears to my eyes and joy to my heart.  Thank you more than I can say.

So this is going from the sublime to the ridiculous!  Here’s my handwriting – it’s my to-do list for yesterday.

photo a day challenge - your handwriting/words

I am a list person, which probably doesn’t surprise many of you. And I put even the most mundane things on my to-do list for the day, so that I will get to cross some things off it (if not all of them).  My little trick to feeling as though I have achieved something.  I like to be organised, and I like to feel that I use my time wisely.  There are never enough hours in the day.

In terms of my handwriting – it’s not all that aesthetically pleasing.  It tends to be a combination of printing and running writing, and I write the letter “a” differently depending on how quickly I am writing (and yes, it can be written differently within the same word).  I went to primary school in the mid-late seventies, but my current writing style doesn’t really reflect what I was taught then.  I altered it when I became a secondary school teacher in order for my students to more easily read it on the black board.  My mother has beautiful handwriting, typical of her era.  Apparently your handwriting can say a lot about you.  I wonder what mine is saying to me?

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photo a day challenge – my kids all dressed up for church

Okay, I admit it.  I’m already a dismal failure at taking a photo each day.  But you know what?  That’s okay!  I’m going to swap between the photo a day challenge over at Katie Evans Photography and the one at Fat Mum Slim.  Depending on what the challenge for that day actually is.  And if I remember!

On Sunday it was “my kids all dressed up for church”.  They’re not all that dressed up, really.  Church isn’t all that formal – and it was HOT!  I made Stella’s dress (for Clare originally) and Clare’s is from Myer.  They had an argument about what to wear that morning – Clare wanted to be “matching” and Stella didn’t.  This was their compromise.

photo a day challenge - my kids dressed up for church

I originally hesitated to post this one, because it does make it pretty obvious that I do attend church, as do my kids (although I probably have mentioned the “church” word before).  My Christian faith has been a fairly private and personal thing for me. For the non-Australians who read this blog, I possibly need to give you a little context. Australia is a highly secular nation.  The majority of my friends and relatives – including my husband – don’t align themselves to any particular religion.  Some disdain Christianity and other religions completely.  So it is something that I have mostly kept to myself.  Maybe I’ve been worried about what others might think of me!

I grew up going to the Uniting Church, a mainstream and progressive church that embraces pretty much everyone and has an active outreach role.  We went to church and Sunday school, and I attended a secondary school affiliated with the Uniting Church for the last three years of my schooling.  Once I was a young adult, I rarely attended church, although I always retained the faith that I had been introduced to as a child somewhere in the recesses of my mind and soul.  Around twenty years passed before I found a new church community close to home (although I often attended with my Mum when I visited my parents, and both my daughters were baptised in my childhood church).

Church is important to me.  I’ve been attending regularly for around a year and a half now (it happens to be a Baptist church but I have retained the more liberal views of my Uniting Church upbringing).  My faith has sustained me through what have been a difficult couple of years, and I give thanks for that.  It is important to me to introduce my daughters to the community of faith, no matter what religion they eventually choose to identify with.  I don’t force them to attend church with me; it is their choice and they love coming along.  Stella is especially thrilled that “she is a Sunday School girl now”.

Worshipping God with other Christians is important to me.  Having my beliefs affirmed – and often challenged – makes me think a little more deeply about the person I am and the parent I am, and where I fit into the broader community.  Many people say that you can be a Christian without going to church.  You possibly can.  That’s what I said for the past twenty years.  And there are plenty of non-Christians who live according to what I consider to be Christian principles.  But I find that going to church helps me to focus and to connect with a community who are accepting of and genuinely interested in my family.  Our church community is surprisingly diverse in socioeconomic, cultural, and educational backgrounds, and along with that are different thoughts about God and Christianity and the Bible.  But despite our differences, we have the same basic faith and are worshipping together.

My Christian faith is pretty simple, actually.  I don’t know the Bible all that well.  I just believe that God is Love, Jesus is the son of God, and everything else flows from that.

This is a deeply personal blog post for me, and is way more than I was originally intending to type.  I’m not even sure whether I’ll press publish.

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photo a day challenge – inside your home

This challenge is a photo a day challenge – it’s not necessarily a blog post a day challenge!  But these are yesterday’s photos.  The theme was “inside your home”. Many rooms of my home have appeared in my blog posts over the past almost five years.  Usually my sewing room, or bedrooms/bathrooms reflected in mirrors.  This time I’ve photographed living areas.

photo a day challenge - the inside of your home

We bought our house in November 1997, and the living room was pink then. We thought it was weird, and it was right up there on our list of things to repaint/renovate. But we very quickly learned to love our pink living room. It’s warm and cosy, and contains many elements that are sentimental to us. That rug? I bought it in Morocco (made from Australian wool however!) back in 1993 when I was a young thing travelling around Europe and beyond. I shipped it home wrapped in brown paper, along with one for my parents. And it arrived! Dad made the TV cabinet and the coffee table, as well as round side tables and a book case that you can’t see in the photo. The standard lamp was a wedding present from our best man and his wife, who are also Clare’s godparents. And on the mantelpiece are family photos and other objects of sentimental value.

photo a day challenge - the inside of your home

The rest of our house was painted yellow, and we’ve kept with that too. As you know by now, I like colour! We renovated the house when I was pregnant with Stella and added the upstairs. My husband was working out of our garage prior to that, and it was time that he had a proper office inside the house! The renovation also gave us a third bedroom, bathroom, a massive linen cupboard, and my sewing room. And downstairs we gained a terrific under-staircase space where my computer now sits. And a back deck. The renovation was so worthwhile for us. This is our retirement house – we have absolutely NO plans to move anywhere from where we are. We love our local community and amenities.

photo a day challenge - the inside of your home

Then there are the dining room and kitchen. The kitchen was renovated by the previous owners quite a few years before we bought the house, and will need it again in a few years time. But I’m hanging out to avoid that expense for as long as possible! The house floor was tiled throughout when we bought it, in very thick, very early 80s Southern European tiles. One of my husband’s first jobs after moving in was to rip up all those tiles and get the boards polished. He did a great job with the crowbar – those tiles were concreted down onto chicken wire.  Yes, the owner who laid them was a concreter.

We really do love our home. It’s a bit of a mish-mash of styles and it’s not one that would ever be photographed for a magazine, and it isn’t immaculately tidy (although I do my best to make sure that everything has a place and is mostly kept in that place). It’s plenty big enough for a family of four without being massive like many homes are nowadays.  It holds many memories for us and is comfortable and, well, it just feels like a home. Not a house, but a real home. We love it.

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photo a day challenge – hands

I’ve really been enjoying the wonderful photos and accompanying prose that my dear friend Megan has been posting over on her blog Indigo Midge each day since she started blogging a month or so ago.  Her obvious pleasure in capturing images and thinking about why they are so meaningful to her has really inspired me to have a go at a “photo a day challenge” myself.  Although I started blogging as show-and-tell for my sewing and crochet endeavours, I figure that since it is my blog I can post whatever I like (with good manners and consideration for others, of course).    So if you’re not so interested in my photo-a-day-challenge efforts, feel free to scroll quickly through these posts!  I am no photographic whiz, and am actually much more focused on why the images might be important to me than their technical merit.  We’ll see what happens!

I’m starting off with “hands”.

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There are a few things that I notice in this photo.  The manicure – something that rarely happens.  I had the opportunity when Clare was at school yesterday and Stella was at childcare to treat myself to a manicure and pedicure.  It felt like an extravagance, and I guess that it was.  But it was lovely to spend a little time on me.  And I notice my manicure in contrast to Clare’s short bitten nails.  I used to bite my fingernails too.  As short as Clare’s, even shorter.  I stopped biting them when I was in grade 5 or 6.  I wonder if she will too.  Her little hand is so small, and so smooth and young.  Mine show my 43 years.  I am so grateful to have full use of my hands, enabling me to do the crafting that I do.  Around 15 years ago I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, and one of the areas that was particularly affected was my hands.  They were swollen and stiff and sore, and I feared that I would have major joint damage and lose the ability to do so many of the things that I love to do.  I was lucky.  Treatment worked for me, and I am in remission.  But every now and then I feel a twinge or an ache, and know that things could have been different.  I am so grateful for my hands, and for the hands of my children in and on mine.